Colorful corridor filled with small groups of people clustering by similarity, symbolizing ingroup preferences and social segregation in neighborhoods and civic organizations.

Why We Prefer "Our Own": The Hidden Architecture of Ingroup Preferences

Most people imagine segregation as the product of strong prejudice or external barriers. Yet new research reveals a quieter driver: even weak preferences for people like ourselves can ripple outward into entire patterns of separation. Across age, ethnicity, and education, people consistently prefer neighborhoods and civic groups where others share their identity. Left unchecked, these small choices can add up, reinforcing bubbles of sameness and blocking the pathways to real contact.

September 3, 2025 in Cognitive Science


Segregation Without Malice

Segregation doesn't always come from overt hostility. Sometimes it emerges from ordinary decisions: where to live, which organizations to join, who to interact with. This study, based on three large-scale survey experiments in the Netherlands, asked over 8,000 people to choose between hypothetical neighborhoods or civic groups. The only variables that shifted? The mix of age, ethnicity, and education.

The results were strikingly consistent: people preferred groups that mirrored themselves. Younger people preferred fewer older neighbors; older adults sought older peers. College-educated participants leaned toward highly educated communities, while less-educated individuals showed little preference. Ethnic majorities avoided neighborhoods with larger minority shares, while minorities themselves gravitated toward organizations with stronger ingroup representation.

The Exposure Trap

One of the most telling findings was the cycle of exposure. People with little day-to-day contact with outgroups displayed the strongest ingroup preferences. In contrast, those who lived or worked in more diverse settings were less rigid. This suggests a feedback loop: fewer cross-group encounters -> stronger preference for sameness -> more segregation -> even fewer encounters. Once the cycle starts, it can harden into social architecture.

Contact Isn't Enough

Interestingly, these preferences did not intensify when contact was expected to be closer or more frequent. People valued similarity just as much for loose associations as for tight-knit groups. This means segregation can emerge at every level - from entire neighborhoods to small teams within a sports club - compounding layer by layer.

The Exception: Education

Not all lines of identity were equal. Lower-educated individuals showed no strong preference for educational similarity. This could reflect practical motivations: access to better schools, safer neighborhoods, or the belief that higher-educated environments carry benefits. By contrast, college-educated individuals strongly clustered toward their own. This highlights that segregation is often sustained by the more privileged groups, not only those with less power.

Why It Matters

At its core, the study shows that ingroup preference is a pervasive human pattern. Even when weak, it shapes choices that aggregate into larger systems of segregation. For societies, this presents a challenge: exposure alone may not dissolve bias, because preferences are sticky and reinforced through repeated choices. For Seven Reflections, it resonates with a broader theme - the way identity functions as a structural interface. When identity fields are saturated, people cluster toward the familiar. When loosened, contact across difference becomes possible.

Toward Cohesion

If ingroup preferences naturally tilt us toward segregation, interventions must focus not only on opportunities for contact, but also on reshaping the conditions under which contact happens. Inclusive public spaces, civic rituals that emphasize shared identity, and deliberate cross-group practices are not luxuries - they are structural tools for breaking the cycle.


Takeaway

Ingroup preferences are not always conscious or malicious, but they are powerful. This research shows how they shape neighborhoods, organizations, and even the chance encounters that sustain social life. The challenge is clear: if we want cohesion in diverse societies, we must design settings where identity does not default to separation, but to connection.


FAQs

What are ingroup preferences?

They are tendencies to prefer social settings where people share one's own age, ethnicity, or education.

Do ingroup preferences always lead to segregation?

Not directly - but even weak preferences, repeated across many individuals, can produce strong patterns of separation.

Why are they stronger among people with little outgroup contact?

Limited exposure reinforces bias: without real encounters, stereotypes persist, making people less open to diversity.

Can segregation be reduced?

Yes - but efforts must go beyond opportunity. Inclusive design in neighborhoods and organizations, and rituals that emphasize shared identities, can reshape patterns over time.


References

Kasimir Dederichs, Rob Franken, Dingeman Wiertz, Jochem Tolsma (2025). Ingroup preferences, segregation, and intergroup contact in neighborhoods and civic organizations. [PNAS Nexus, Volume 4, Issue 9] https://doi.org/10.1093/pnasnexus/pgaf25...

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