Attraction & Intensity

Attraction Index evaluates a scope of qualities you find attractive in each other. From physical attractiveness and behavior to a spectrum of psychological traits and features, your score represents the chemistry or spark that motivated you to be with another person, and them with you. As a rule of thumb, the attraction is necessary but not sufficient for defining true love.

Intensity Index outlines the challenges. Detailed investigation of connections determines which areas of your life are affected the most. It can be sexual intensity, strong desire to dominate, criticism, or deep contradictions in beliefs and lifestyles. While intense passion may work to your benefit, there are some levels of intensity people find difficult to accept. Jealousy, for example, can ruin relationships. Desire to manipulate can tear your safety net. You can be intensely in love for many years, but it shouldn't limit your independence.

People with more than fifteen links between them have their scores higher than someone with five connections or less. As a rule, relationships with high-attraction and low-Intensity scores have more chances to survive in the long run and to bring more positive energy and mutual understanding. The excess of intense connections between people leads to break-ups and conflicts. Keep in mind that the level of intensity depends on your personal preferences and traits. Passionate people prefer more intense relationships; they are quickly bored with perfections. Others are looking for a harmonious and caring environment. If you research your previous relationships in-depth, you will discover the Attraction and Intensity Scores that fit you the best.

Compatibility Chart

Meeting someone is never an accident, no matter how long your relationship lasts. There are always lessons, challenges, and virtues. It's easy to see in your compatibility chart, what brought you together in this lifetime and how enjoyable or challenging your relationships are meant to be. If you are aiming for long-term relationships, look for family and benefits indexes. Special connections give you a sense of pre-destined call. Lessons and challenges highlight the problematic aspects that may work for your advantage in the long-run. Intensity adds an edge, while criticism in high doses can make or break your trust.

Relationship Type: Loving

Prime Themes

love and harmony

karmic lessons

passion

What is Missing?

emotional intimacy

When emotional intimacy is missing, a couple may still fall in love and get married, but little holds them together once the first excitement fades. Passion, children, money, habit, or shared goals may keep them together for a time, but none can replace a deep personal bond. Their chances of lasting are poor, and separation is more likely. The other connections reveal what may keep them together - and what could finally pull them apart.

Love

They genuinely like each other as well as love each other. Both feel attracted, valued, and comfortable in the relationship, and affection flows naturally in both directions. They enjoy many of the same pleasures and find it easier to forgive small faults. This connection brings warmth, acceptance, and contentment - but their other connections reveal whether love alone is enough to hold the marriage together.

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Passion

They share a powerful physical attraction, and neither person waits for the other to make the first move. Desire and initiative flow equally in both directions, creating strong sexual chemistry and a willingness to explore together. The same energy can make them active and successful partners in life. However, when they are not working toward the same goal, all that passion can quickly turn into competition and conflict.

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Prosperity

He wants to see her succeed and feels proud of her accomplishments. She also supports him, but his help to her is stronger. His encouragement, advice, and generosity can build her confidence and add support and security to their marriage.

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Criticism

She sees his weak points clearly and may feel responsible for correcting them. At her best, she helps him become stronger, more disciplined, and more independent. At her worst, her guidance can turn into constant criticism, coldness, or control.

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Friendship, Freedom, Inspiration

She opens his eyes to new ideas, experiences, and possibilities. Her unusual outlook can help him escape an old routine and see life differently. She can feel like both a partner and a best friend, but the marriage needs enough freedom for her to remain herself.

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Idealism / Illusions

At first, he sees her through a deeply romantic lens and may place her on a pedestal. He feels that she is the woman of his dreams and may overlook her faults or excuse her actions. Once he sees her as she truly is, he may feel disappointed - not because she changed, but because the image he loved was never completely real.

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Control / Challenges

She has a powerful hold over him and may trigger his deepest fears and weaknesses. His attraction to her can make it difficult for him to recognize when passion has become control. If she limits his freedom, isolates him, threatens him, humiliates him, or uses force, this is abuse - not love or personal transformation.

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Life-Changing Lessons

He brings an important lesson into her life. She also teaches him something, but the lesson she receives through him is stronger. Their marriage may force her to face beliefs or patterns she once failed to understand. Even if the relationship ends, the lesson may continue to shape her life.

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Cosmic Rewards

At first, Bradley may feel more like a burden than a reward. Their marriage can bring difficult challenges to the surface, forcing her to face what remains unfinished in her life. His true value may become clear only later, when she sees how much she has changed and what the experience taught her about her purpose.

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Connections: Life vs. Spiritual

Forward, Reverse and Mutual Connections

Jennifer Esposito and Bradley Cooper: Relationship Story

Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Esposito were married for just four months. "It was just something that happened," Cooper said, without detailing exactly when he knew things were off. "The good thing is, we both realized it...Sometimes you just realize it." What kind of guy was Cooper before stardom, Zellweger and ex-wife Esposito? "I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17," he admitted. "I'm just a walker," Jennifer told HollywoodLife.com exclusively of her pre-wedding fitness regimen June 8 at the Change of Plans screening at the IFC Center in NYC. "I run occasionally, [but], I'm a walker. I walk clear across the city!"

Jennifer Esposito

Birthday: April 11, 1973

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Tens are called "Success" Cards - Fully Accomplished. Pythagoreans say that the number Ten represents Deity, Heaven, Eternity, and the Sun. Ten starts a new cycle - the cycle of man's Aspiration. Ten of Diamonds succeed as Master if Matter. Their domination is over "all created things."

The symbol of money and success in finances, Ten of Diamonds has also represented the center of our society, as a replacement for Divine Plan, Receptivity and Intuition. Those Ten of Diamonds, who feel this virtue, are value-conscious rather than money-conscious, and are apt to "full accomplishment" and given the power of all values - material and spiritual.

People who are identified with the Ten Of Diamonds have wonderful possibilities. They can be successful, wealthy, fully satisfied, accomplished. If they are willing to take necessary efforts, no one has greater power in material and financial matters. As with all Tens, the biggest problem is the lack of personal discipline. All they need to do is apply the lucky power of their card to acquire the prize.

Ten of Diamonds are sharp and witty, and while their education is primarily sought along the business lines, they respect knowledge and want to be educated enough to take their place in any company. There are many philanthropists in these birthdays, many with a strong sense of universal obligation and a desire to put money into constructive use. They are generous and always ready to help less fortunate than they are. Many monuments, magnificent buildings, enterprises have been established in their name.

If Ten Of Diamonds is willing to engage in business, there is no problem to commercialize their ideas. They never fear a size of an extent; they know how to handle it - and make a fortune. They are well protected in finances, and there is a high possibility of inheritance. They may get down to the last dollar, threatened with loss of business or property - and then by clever manipulation in the last second, turn their failure into success.

Ten of Diamonds are argumentative and opinionated, good debaters, lawyers, very detailed and technical. Can drive a hard bargain, and rarely pay more than its worth. They are usually skeptical of the motives of others.

Ten of Diamonds men will benefit in association with a successful woman. The Ten of Diamonds women are likely to be in a key position of management. For the Ten of Diamonds, it is imperative to look prosperous in the eyes of the word. They surround themselves with successful people who have something to offer - a position and social status, family background or wealth.h.

Karma Card: Queen of Clubs All Queens represent the receptive principle and man's spiritual nature. The Queen of Clubs emphasizes mental attitudes and approaches as well; whatever received is relayed through the mind; the spirituality expressed is balanced, wise, and logical. As a Karma card, the Queen of Clubs backs you up with the ability to make good judgments and gives power of discrimination. Be wary that in the Divine Path, Intelligence and Receptivity are at the central point - and while these qualities are taken to second place in the world, you may borrow them by virtue of displacement. Money-conscious, you can translate your full accomplishment into cosmic terms - this is when you will find that being value-conscious is quite different than to rely life on purely material considerations. Through the Queen of Clubs, you have a full access to wisdom and mind of man, and developing your intuition and true spirituality is one of the important keys to unfolding your full potential, as well as it is also your karmic responsibility.

Bradley Cooper

Birthday: January 5, 1975

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The Nine of Spades are great people. Nine is universal, all-containing symbol. It is the end and the beginning. None of Nine of Spades are undeveloped or unaware. Nervous, romantic, unconventional - they can turn all these qualities into working assets, and they do when they use their talents for service and concern themselves with the universal picture. The keynote for success is the sublimation of the emotions, and this is not difficult to handle. They are given the power to overcome any difficulties. All they need is to bust up their confidence from time to time.

The Nine of Spades have tremendous personal magnetism, and if they can get this extreme power under control, they become most powerful artists, entertainers, politicians and spiritual leaders.

Nine Of Spades often come from a family with a restrictive father. It can influence all their life, and at some point, they can become strict in their family. The women may marry an older man that will remind them of their father. They are always helpful and valuable, but should not be allowed to impose domination. Men friends will always be important and influential.

As significant as their home might be to them, The Nine of Spades need outside interests or social group where they can open up their big hearts and help others.

Nine of Spades have fantastic potential to succeed when they are ready to accept the responsibility of leadership. Occupation is often connected to finances - they deal with bankers, investors, or become one by themselves. With so much is going on for them in life, Nine Of Spades should wait not for anything to happen, but take full control over their lives and lives of others. Stability in work is much desired. But steady income and a secure job should not be allowed to produce a rut. It is very common for Nine of Spade's person to fear financial insecurity, but there is no reason for it. Good fortune is always at their disposal. They can successfully invest in real estate.

Nine of Spades have original and sometimes untraditional ideas. If you are born under this birth card, opening your real potential is significant and will help your "initialization" into the higher levels of the realm. Impersonal approach to the world is a must to be developed, or there is bound to be suffering. None of Nine Of Spades are undeveloped or unaware, and this very awareness can be disturbing. Personal involvement can interrupt their business or work, and if emotional conflicts are not handled "impersonally" but universally, it can lead to "psychic" illnesses. Nine Of Spades have the power to overcome any difficulties. They are great people, and they must realize it and give their talents, their executive abilities to the worlds to find real satisfaction and happiness.

Karma Card: King of Hearts Your card is placed in the Venus line, displacing the King of Hearts, suggests that you have a tremendous personal magnetism, which could also make you emotionally top heavy. Get this heart power under control, and you can become an influential people mover as an artist, entertainer, politician or spiritual leader. Do not allow an overindulgence in self-interests and a worm’s eye perspective on life to bring you the weight of disappointment which can be the alternative interpretation of this card. Accept the responsibility of your birthright, gained through many lifetimes, and enjoy the fulfillment this life can bring you.