Arliss Howard & Debra Winger

Compatibility Report

Arliss Howard: October 18, 1954
Arliss Howard
Commitment Index: 4.2
40% Complete (success)
Leadership:  
Four of Clubs
Birth Card
Jack of Spades
Ruler
Five of Clubs
Karma Card
Six of Hearts
Karma Cousin
Debra Winger: May 16, 1955
Debra Winger
Commitment Index: 4.2
40% Complete (success)
Leadership:  
Three of Diamonds
Birth Card
Seven of Hearts
Ruler
Six of Hearts
Karma Card
Queen of Diamonds
Karma Cousin

Total Connections Found: 23

We found 17 connections between Arliss and Debra. Strong attraction can begin at first sight, but that does not mean both people feel it in the same way. Lasting love develops through different levels of passion, emotional closeness, and commitment. Their connections show whether the first spark can grow into something deeper and more lasting. Some bonds are spiritual or karmic and work below the surface. Others come from physical attraction, childhood patterns, shared interests, and ideas about what a relationship should be.

Attraction index: 4.1
Intensity index: 1.94
Compatibility: 2.62

Attraction & Intensity

Attraction Index evaluates a scope of qualities you find attractive in each other. From physical attractiveness and behavior to a spectrum of psychological traits and features, your score represents the chemistry or spark that motivated you to be with another person, and them with you. As a rule of thumb, the attraction is necessary but not sufficient for defining true love.

Intensity Index outlines the challenges. Detailed investigation of connections determines which areas of your life are affected the most. It can be sexual intensity, strong desire to dominate, criticism, or deep contradictions in beliefs and lifestyles. While intense passion may work to your benefit, there are some levels of intensity people find difficult to accept. Jealousy, for example, can ruin relationships. Desire to manipulate can tear your safety net. You can be intensely in love for many years, but it shouldn't limit your independence.

People with more than fifteen links between them have their scores higher than someone with five connections or less. As a rule, relationships with high-attraction and low-Intensity scores have more chances to survive in the long run and to bring more positive energy and mutual understanding. The excess of intense connections between people leads to break-ups and conflicts. Keep in mind that the level of intensity depends on your personal preferences and traits. Passionate people prefer more intense relationships; they are quickly bored with perfections. Others are looking for a harmonious and caring environment. If you research your previous relationships in-depth, you will discover the Attraction and Intensity Scores that fit you the best.

Debra's Scores are Slightly Different from Arliss's

A relationship brings two people together, but each person gives and receives energy differently. Because each partner experiences the relationship in a different way, their compatibility scores may not be exactly the same.

The scores suggest that Arliss feels more compatible with Debra than Debra feels with Arliss.

Attraction index: 4.07
Intensity index: 1.84
Compatibility: 2.19

Compatibility Chart

Meeting someone is never an accident, no matter how long your relationship lasts. There are always lessons, challenges, and virtues. It's easy to see in your compatibility chart, what brought you together in this lifetime and how enjoyable or challenging your relationships are meant to be. If you are aiming for long-term relationships, look for family and benefits indexes. Special connections give you a sense of pre-destined call. Lessons and challenges highlight the problematic aspects that may work for your advantage in the long-run. Intensity adds an edge, while criticism in high doses can make or break your trust.



Relationship Type: Loving

Prime Themes

Love and harmony - venus connections

love and harmony

Karmic lessons in love and relationships - karmic connections

karmic lessons

Emotional intimacy - Moon connections

emotional intimacy

What is Missing?

Illusions in love - neptune connections

illusions

Good news: they see each other as they really are. Neither one is in love with a fantasy or expects the other to be perfect. Red flags are harder to ignore, and neither partner must live up to an impossible image. Their relationship may feel less like a fairy tale, but they are unlikely to wake up one day and wonder who they married.

Long-term Relationship | Marriage

Long-term relationship indicators are the strongest signs of marriage and a lasting bond, but not every couple has them. They make two people feel at home with each other. This closeness may grow through shared experiences or come from a karmic past. Passion may fade, but the bond keeps you close.

Equal Leadership

Equal Leadership means both partners share responsibility for major decisions and the future direction of the relationship.

Emotional Intimacy

They are a strong match. They share 3 connections of emotional closeness and understand each other on a deep, personal level. They can openly share their thoughts and help each other through confusing situations. Neither person is the clear mastermind; they are strongest when they share major decisions and responsibilities.

Love

They genuinely like each other as well as love each other. Both feel attracted, valued, and comfortable in the relationship, and affection flows naturally in both directions. They enjoy many of the same pleasures and find it easier to forgive small faults. This connection brings warmth, acceptance, and contentment - but their other connections reveal whether love alone is enough to hold the marriage together.

Passion

They create strong reactions in each other, but she is the main driving force in the relationship. Her character excites him, pushes him to act, and may also irritate him at times. This powerful energy can fuel attraction and shared success, but it can also create conflict when they have no common goal.

Prosperity

They make each other's lives better. Both want to see the other succeed and are willing to offer encouragement, useful advice, practical help, and shared resources. They open doors for each other and build each other's confidence. Most importantly, they see and respect the best in one another. This mutual support can help them create a successful and prosperous life together.

Criticism

He sees the areas where she needs more discipline, confidence, or stronger boundaries. She also challenges him, but his effect on her is stronger. His influence can help her grow and succeed, but it can also make her feel judged, restricted, or controlled.

Friendship, Freedom, Inspiration

He opens her eyes to new ideas, experiences, and possibilities. His unusual outlook can help her escape an old routine and see life differently. He can feel like both a partner and a best friend, but the marriage needs enough freedom for him to remain himself.

Control / Challenges

She has a powerful hold over him and may trigger his deepest fears and weaknesses. Strong attraction can make it difficult for him to recognize when passion has become control. If she limits his freedom, isolates him, threatens him, humiliates him, or uses force, this is abuse. No spiritual or karmic meaning excuses it.

Life-Changing Lessons

He brings a difficult lesson into her life. Through their marriage, she may be forced to face an old belief, repeated pattern, or truth about herself that she once avoided. Whether the relationship lasts or ends, the experience may change how she approaches love and life.

Cosmic Rewards

He brings an important lesson into her life. She also teaches him something, but the lesson she receives through him is stronger. Their marriage may force her to face beliefs or patterns she once failed to understand. Even if the relationship ends, the lesson may continue to shape her life.

Connections: Life vs. Spiritual

Arliss and Debra have a higher percentage of mundane connections. Mundane does not mean boring; it means their bond is shaped more by this life than by a shared karmic past. Without the deep feeling that they have known each other before, problems can feel sharper and take more effort to solve. Large differences in age, upbringing, lifestyle, or social background may also be harder to overcome. Their full report shows whether they have enough common ground to build something lasting.


Forward, Reverse and Mutual Connections

According to their scores, Arliss puts 13.05% more energy into the relationship than Debra does. That extra energy is not always expressed as love and affection. It may appear as support, worry, fear, conflict, or a need for control. What is clear is that Debra is more invested and more deeply affected by the relationship. If this imbalance continues, Debra may eventually feel that too much is being given and too little is coming back.


Arliss Howard and Debra Winger: Relationship Story

In 1996 Debra Winger married actor/director Arliss Howard, whom she met on the set of the film Wilder Napalm. Their son, Gideon Babe Ruth Howard (known as Babe), was born in 1997. She is stepmother to Sam Howard.

They have one child together.


Arliss Howard

Birthday: October 18, 1954
Four of Clubs
Birth Card
Jack of Spades
Ruler
Five of Clubs
Karma Card
Six of Hearts
Karma Cousin

Out of all birthday, Four (4) are among the most fortunate. It gives them an excellent start - with protection, security, sufficiency, but like with any other card how we use our potential is what creates our success in life. Four of Clubs are builders and foundation of Knowledge - the knowledge to be share and profit, educate and grow. Four is also a number of the Emperor. Fours must be in command of every situation that arises. They are dealing with practical applications of knowledge, and they the power to glorify it.

Four of Clubs are very active and energetic people. They are looking for mental security and stability through the desire for change in the name of progress. Their restless nature is rarely satisfied with traditional education, and there is a constant search for new ways to become more active and substantial. They can significantly contribute to the literature, philosophy, and education in general.

They have good judgment and the appeal to those of intelligence and common sense. They usually stick to tradition and principle, unless it interferes with progress. Very patriotic, they don't escape from fundamentals. They made great lawyers and lawmakers. They often know how to listen to debates and arguments, but some tend to talk much and say little. They are not concerned with the topic that they think is not important and will not waste their time or brains on small matters.

Either man or woman Four Of Clubs can achieve great success in work and career, taking on superior positions. Women Four Of Clubs have an extraordinary gift of intuition and extrasensory perception and run for jobs usually held by men. Many Four of Clubs becomes politicians and economists.

Four of Clubs resist stupidity and triviality because they are mental fundamentalists with the understanding that growth and expansion are possible only through constant activity along intellectual lines.
Five of Clubs

Karma Card: Five of Clubs

Five of Clubs indicates restlessness, changeability, and dissatisfaction with the type of education sought and the decisions made. This, however, prevails only when there is insufficient knowledge to support the judgment. The Five of Clubs may indicate nothing but a wholesome desire for change in the name of progress. There is no lack of activity - all Four of Clubs people are progressive and active. Five of Clubs Karma card gives a desire to experiment in mental realms, and "divine discontent" with the knowledge acquired - and an eagerness to find something definite and stabilizing. As the character develops, wisdom and experience correct this fault - if fault it is - and the majority make a valuable contribution to literature, philosophy, and education in general.

Debra Winger

Birthday: May 16, 1955
Three of Diamonds
Birth Card
Seven of Hearts
Ruler
Six of Hearts
Karma Card
Queen of Diamonds
Karma Cousin

All Threes are forerunners of ultimate perfection and triumph. Number 3 departures from the Number 2 - the source of balance and harmony, and so it's always looking to find this balance in creating something new. This is a stage of progressive development through multiple experiences, both of success and failure. There is an urge in self-expression and variety. The prime concern is more likely to pertain to the realm of values. But what is affecting Three of Diamond's judgments and attitudes is the symbol of Divine Wisdom that marks the central point of the mind. Security is paramount, and at the same time, their quest for freedom and exploration of the world adds extreme diversity into their character and keeps them on the road of uncertainty.

At the one end of the spectrum of possibilities, the Three of Diamonds indicate a bright, creative personality. On the other - they are often confused and worrisome. They are always trying to gain the whole world, suppressing their fear to jeopardize their soul in the process. Aspiration gives way to ambition, and their drive for material security can help to acquire great wealth. Intuitive mentality can be very useful in careers involved handling of money. A tendency to become anxious under restrictive regulations suggests choosing occupations and activities which will allow the natives of this card to enjoy a sense of freedom. They find the best success in people-related activities.

The Three of Diamonds possesses a desire for Truth and great potential in spiritual teaching, but it is not always sought beyond the limits of expediency. Among them, there is a full realization that they are but agents and trustees of whatever gifts they have and that their minds must always be kept on a higher level to receive direction and inspiration that will not fail them. Some unhappiness in early childhood usually related to parents may create a very serious outlook on life. Or there might be something like a heavy religious experience, which may seem so suppressive that they have rebelled. If there is not call for higher wisdom, there is a high possibility that they can become very secretive in communications and even serve in secret agencies.

Many Three Of Diamonds become actors, writers, politicians (especially those who born on August 10). Very flexible and creative, inventive, and energetic, they are passionate to explore the world of possibilities and eager to add new creations to the world. Business or occupation related to travel and a wide variety of actions is the best fit and brings excellent financial benefits. They are not created for any sort of routine that kills their enthusiasm through boredom. In business, they should seek associates among powerful and influential friends. Working in a harmonic friendly environment is an essential key to success.

There is an element of sacrifice present. Whether it will be a loved one, who needs their help or heavy work responsibilities, but the Three of Diamonds are often feeling like a martyr. They respond to a call for help with such a degree of readiness and compassion that might come as a surprise not just to others who knew them for a while but even to themselves. Once they accept the responsibility of service through love, they will uncover a tremendous spiritual healing power inside themselves.
Six of Hearts

Karma Card: Six of Hearts

The Heart Suit is the suit of Love. The Six represents the Law and Order. The Six of Hearts is the card of a Soul. It represents the Law of Love - the Christ principle, which itself entails sacrifice and selflessness. It stands for a family - Father-Mother-Child principle, for beauty, harmony, order, and completion. It is union and cooperation, adjustment and responsibility. There are debts to be paid in concerns with love and personal relationships.

Karmic relationships are the essential part of your destiny. The demand is to live by Christ principle of love and to take the full responsibility for any action that concerns others. Even if you aware of your inner quest for Divine Wisdom, you might have an uncomfortable sense of departure from the safe road every time your material ambition takes over the desire of spiritual anchorage. As a result, worry and self-pity inevitably disturb your peace of mind. The security can and must be found - but not in material measures but spiritual advancements.


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