There is an irresistable attraction
and an atmosphere of love and passion. Both feel the other person
is their "type", and each tends to get a real ego boost and energy buzz from their partner. For him, the question "Is it Love or Addicion?"
is vital. Powerful sexual attraction mixed with memories of painful past experiences adds a touch of drama to the picture.
The desire to make each other happy, to lift each other up, to inspire and to help, to share resources, information and positive attitudes, opens new doors and new avenues of expression and helps to build up self-confidence. They value and respect the best in each other and this along is the key to the prosperous and successful life.
There is a steep learning curve
before they become more mature and independent. Mentoring, teaching, listening, criticizing, trying to grasp a higher wisdom, learning the laws of fairness and truth are inevitable in this relationship. Most of the time, this type of relationships do not last long, and when lessons are learnt, people simply walk away from each other and don't look back.
Friendship, Freedom, Inspiration
Where did she go? Her electric personality and unusual twists in relationship strike. It reflects the time of their first date when he was looking for something new, fresh and inspirational. There was something unusual, different about her entire "act". She might be his best friend, but it is tough to let her be free.
Idealism / Illusions
Isn't he perfect? She just can't help it. Playing the role of Mr. Right is not an easy task, but it depends... An inability to see his real nature may lead to serious disappointments in the future.
Control / Challenges
He may become the most significant person in her life, shaking her world, uncovering secrets, destroying sets of old beliefs and stereotypes, challenging deep fears and unresolved issues. Along with the powerful sexual attraction, he makes her feel powerless, fragile and controlled, and adds dramatic sophistication. Confronting hidden fears and emotional implications from the past can escalate very painful experience.