Attraction & Intensity

Attraction Index evaluates a scope of qualities you find attractive in each other. From physical attractiveness and behavior to a spectrum of psychological traits and features, your score represents the chemistry or spark that motivated you to be with another person, and them with you. As a rule of thumb, the attraction is necessary but not sufficient for defining true love.

Intensity Index outlines the challenges. Detailed investigation of connections determines which areas of your life are affected the most. It can be sexual intensity, strong desire to dominate, criticism, or deep contradictions in beliefs and lifestyles. While intense passion may work to your benefit, there are some levels of intensity people find difficult to accept. Jealousy, for example, can ruin relationships. Desire to manipulate can tear your safety net. You can be intensely in love for many years, but it shouldn't limit your independence.

People with more than fifteen links between them have their scores higher than someone with five connections or less. As a rule, relationships with high-attraction and low-Intensity scores have more chances to survive in the long run and to bring more positive energy and mutual understanding. The excess of intense connections between people leads to break-ups and conflicts. Keep in mind that the level of intensity depends on your personal preferences and traits. Passionate people prefer more intense relationships; they are quickly bored with perfections. Others are looking for a harmonious and caring environment. If you research your previous relationships in-depth, you will discover the Attraction and Intensity Scores that fit you the best.

Compatibility Chart

Meeting someone is never an accident, no matter how long your relationship lasts. There are always lessons, challenges, and virtues. It's easy to see in your compatibility chart, what brought you together in this lifetime and how enjoyable or challenging your relationships are meant to be. If you are aiming for long-term relationships, look for family and benefits indexes. Special connections give you a sense of pre-destined call. Lessons and challenges highlight the problematic aspects that may work for your advantage in the long-run. Intensity adds an edge, while criticism in high doses can make or break your trust.

Relationship Type: Loving

Prime Themes

love and harmony

prosperity

passion

What is Missing?

emotional intimacy

When emotional intimacy is missing, a couple may still fall in love and get married, but little holds them together once the first excitement fades. Passion, children, money, habit, or shared goals may keep them together for a time, but none can replace a deep personal bond. Their chances of lasting are poor, and separation is more likely. The other connections reveal what may keep them together - and what could finally pull them apart.

karmic lessons

Good news: there are no karmic lessons holding this couple together. Their marriage is not built around a painful pattern that must be repeated until one of them finally understands it. They may still face problems and learn from each other, but they are not trapped in a cycle that keeps pulling them back for another difficult lesson.

Love

They genuinely like each other as well as love each other. Both feel attracted, valued, and comfortable in the relationship, and affection flows naturally in both directions. They enjoy many of the same pleasures and find it easier to forgive small faults. This connection brings warmth, acceptance, and contentment - but their other connections reveal whether love alone is enough to hold the marriage together.

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Passion

They create strong reactions in each other, but she is the main driving force in the relationship. Her character excites him, pushes him to act, and may also irritate him at times. This powerful energy can fuel attraction and shared success, but it can also create conflict when they have no common goal.

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Prosperity

They make each other's lives better. Both want to see the other succeed and are willing to offer encouragement, useful advice, practical help, and shared resources. They open doors for each other and build each other's confidence. Most importantly, they see and respect the best in one another. This mutual support can help them create a successful and prosperous life together.

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Criticism

She sees the areas where he needs more discipline, confidence, or stronger boundaries. He also challenges her, but her effect on him is stronger. Her influence can help him grow and succeed, but it can also make him feel judged, restricted, or controlled.

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Friendship, Freedom, Inspiration

He opens her eyes to new ideas, experiences, and possibilities. His unusual outlook can help her escape an old routine and see life differently. He can feel like both a partner and a best friend, but the marriage needs enough freedom for him to remain himself.

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Idealism / Illusions

At first, she sees him through a deeply romantic lens and may place him on a pedestal. She feels that he is the man of her dreams and may overlook his faults or excuse his actions. Once she sees him as he truly is, she may feel disappointed - not because he changed, but because the image she loved was never completely real.

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Control / Challenges

She has a powerful hold over him and may trigger his deepest fears and weaknesses. Strong attraction can make it difficult for him to recognize when passion has become control. If she limits his freedom, isolates him, threatens him, humiliates him, or uses force, this is abuse. No spiritual or karmic meaning excuses it.

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Connections: Life vs. Spiritual

Forward, Reverse and Mutual Connections

Jesse James and Sandra Bullock: Relationship Story

Jesse James

Birthday: April 19, 1969

Birth Card

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Karma Card

Karma Cousin

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Twos represent Union - the Father-Mother Principle, and so stands for cooperation and associations. It is vital for the Two Of Diamonds to be given a good start. There should be someone when they are young to support, advise and encourage.

The Two of Diamonds have a gift of intuition, and if used, they don't make mistakes in life. If principles are held, success is assured, even though there is always some concern about money, as in the case of all cards in a Diamond suit. The Two of Diamonds birth card is the best for physicians because they can diagnose very well, using their gift of intuition. If not concerned with medicine, they have a high power of healing - whether or not it recognized or used.

The Two of Diamonds always seeks a way to communicate and cooperate with people, through messaging and phone calls, or interviews. Internet networking, blogging, marketing can become a successful business strategy. There is a power available in any activity they choose, - a position of leadership and authority, extending to social life. Like diamonds, they know what things and people are worth, and they choose their companions and partners through their understanding of values.

The Two of Diamonds are positive and confident. They don't scream or yield to an argument. They may become overly satisfied with their life situation, so they forget to work on principles that give them a key to higher accomplishments.

The Two of Diamonds need some definite form of expression that will bring out their real worth and allow them to use it for the universal benefit. They make excellent traders and merchants.

It is a very favorable influence in real estate deals, especially land, farms, etc. The Two of Diamonds are highly successful in investments. But in any occupation they choose, the position of authority usually acquired. They have an unusual ability to deal with personnel and any labor problems.

Karma Card: Six of Clubs Graced by the Six of Clubs as your Karma Card, a guiding light breaks through the fog of uncertainty that might envelop the Two of Diamonds. With its expansive reach, this card speaks of a purpose that goes beyond mere vocation it beckons to a higher calling. As a Two of Diamonds, you are instilled with a heightened sense of this mission. Your consciousness is attuned to greater things, rising above self-centric concerns that may preoccupy others. With the universe's wisdom embedded in you, your intuitive compass seldom goes awry. When you remain steadfast to your guiding principles, success unfurls its wings to embrace you. Yet, being linked to the Diamond suit, occasional monetary apprehensions do cloud your sky, a sentiment that resonates with all Diamond members. Moreover, the Six of Clubs brings to the fore a pronounced inner pride, a beacon that seeks acknowledgement. This yearning for recognition fuels your drive to reach new pinnacles of achievement. However, it's vital to strike a balance, for there's a simmering conflict between this drive and your intrinsic quest for tranquillity. The value you place on a serene and welcoming home atmosphere serves as a counterpoint, reminding you that while recognition is a worthy pursuit, inner peace and the comforts of home are equally paramount.

Sandra Bullock

Birthday: July 26, 1964

Birth Card

Karma Card

Karma Cousin

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Two represents Union - the Father-Mother principle, male and female, light and darkness, action and reaction, and so stands for cooperation and associations. Two of Clubs seek union in congenial Mind.

Two of Clubs have a successful life path. A brilliant mind supports their quick and talented tongue suggesting that they can more than hold their ground in any debate or exchange of wit. There is always great interest in people and natural curiosity regarding their emotional life. Two of Clubs are impulsive and hot-headed. They tend to make fast conclusions, and the first reaction is always on the opposite side of the argument. They never lack for an answer and very positive in their opinions. Mental power implies the opportunity to demonstrate leadership qualities, suggesting that they can excel in almost anything they try to do.

Two of Clubs often have some artistic or dramatic talent. They can make good money with writing, ideas, instruction. They are easygoing, transient lovers. They are attracted to successful people and like to feel satisfied.

Two of Clubs have a fortunate ground to achieve exceptional success and be well rewarded materially. They know how to get most out of commerce, for they know how to find the weak spots in others. They are responsible and are willing to work hard. They are often well recognized in middle age. They usually like their work and inject some fundamental and practical improvement. Friends are helpful and can become business partners.

Two of Clubs children must be taught not fear their parent's displeasure; not to conceal their feelings; not to feel that the whole world is against them and that there is no must to strike the first blow and fight it. Their soul wants divine wisdom; their hearts desire cooperation. They should not be afraid of "dark." It is known, that Two of Clubs fear the divine knowledge, but once they recognize their inner strength (usually after forty) they start seeking the things of the "higher mind," and many of them become involved in secret societies, and attaining a high position. They need an outlet for their rare abilities - a talent cultivated or a hobby enjoyed.

Karma Card: Ace of Spades The Ace of Spades represents the initiation into the mysteries of the universe. Without a definite knowledge of the higher values and laws, the soul is lost in fears of decay and death. Here, on Earth, each of us makes the decision to pursue our own personal paths, using our own wills and power. With the Ace of Spades Karma card, you learn to control the creative power and become aware of the higher spirals of consciousness to be obtained. Evolution back to our spiritual home demands that we become selfless, and have a willingness to serve others. The theme "from darkness to light" helps the Ace of Spades find a purpose of experiencing the human kingdom. The truth is, the good and evil are not condemned but understood, and love regained more through pain and suffering than through pleasure. The self is not only a body but a soul mind. True wisdom lies concealed in every cell in our bodies, as our God-self within. Looking for answers within, listening to the spirit, helps to find the path of fulfillment.