He is her type of a man. There is a real physical connection between the two that generally presents itself as sexual attraction and physical chemistry. For him, the question "Is it Love or Addicion?"
is vital. Powerful sexual attraction mixed with memories of painful past experiences adds a touch of drama to the picture. She is drawn to him
as a butterfly to the candlelight. Powerful sexual attraction mixed with memories of painful past experiences adds a touch of drama to the picture.
His desire to make her happy is a definite benefit to her abilities and talents. He holds pride in her accomplishments, willing to do almost anything to help her climb the social ladder. He can lift her up with his enthusiasm and build up her self-confidence at times she doesn't feel so strong.
There is a steep learning curve
before they become more mature and independent. Mentoring, teaching, listening, criticizing, trying to grasp a higher wisdom, learning the laws of fairness and truth are inevitable in this relationship. Most of the time, this type of relationships do not last long, and when lessons are learnt, people simply walk away from each other and don't look back.
Friendship, Freedom, Inspiration
Where did he go? His electric personality and unusual twists in relationship strike. It reflects the time of their first date when she was looking for something new, fresh and inspirational. There was something unusual, different about his entire "act". He might be her best friend, but it is tough to let him be free.
Idealism / Illusions
Isn't he perfect? She just can't help it. Playing the role of Mr. Right is not an easy task, but it depends... An inability to see his real nature may lead to serious disappointments in the future.
Control / Challenges
He may become the most significant person in her life, shaking her world, uncovering secrets, destroying sets of old beliefs and stereotypes, challenging deep fears and unresolved issues. Along with the powerful sexual attraction, he makes her feel powerless, fragile and controlled, and adds dramatic sophistication. Confronting hidden fears and emotional implications from the past can escalate very painful experience.
He is the part of her learning curve in life. It might be not easy to handle, but she definitely needs it.
They may not realize the significance of their relationship until later in life, but as a fact they are. In a middle while, it might be a roller-coaster experience.