There are lessons, they both must take out this relationship. It isn't easy at times, but the desire to achieve good results is the part of the attraction.There is a steep learning curve before they become more mature and independent. Mentoring, teaching, listening, criticizing, trying to grasp a higher wisdom, learning the laws of fairness and truth are inevitable in this relationship. Most of the time, this type of relationships do not last long, and when lessons are learnt, people simply walk away from each other and don't look back.Her desire to make him happy is a definite benefit to his abilities and talents. She holds pride in his accomplishments, willing to do almost anything to help him climb the social ladder. She can lift him up with her enthusiasm and build up his self-confidence at times he doesn't feel so strong.There is a real physical connection between the two that generally presents itself as sexual attraction and physical chemistry. Both feel the other person is their "type", and each tends to get a real ego boost and energy buzz from their partner.Where did he go? His electric personality and unusual twists in relationship strike. It reflects the time of their first date when she was looking for something new, fresh and inspirational. There was something unusual, different about his entire "act". He might be her best friend, but it is tough to let him be free.